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Vick & Rose suffering from the same rush to judgement

Vick & Rose suffering from the same rush to judgement

Vick & Rose suffering from the same rush to judgement

Noah Sidel
Published on August 25th, 2009
Published on Febuary 6th, 2010
Noah Sidel

I’ve received quite a bit of feedback over the last week concerning my column about welcoming Michael Vick back with open arms – albeit with a long memory and a short leash, so to speak.

What Vick did was a horrible thing, but the point of my last column wasn’t to give him a free pass, rather, it was to say people make mistakes and while his was worse than some others I can think of, it wasn’t the kind of mistake a person can never recover from.

Like I said then and I stand by now, Vick has paid his penance and now deserves a shot to make things as right as he can and to use his massive celebrity to further good causes – notably animal rights.

If I were on PETA’s governing board, the first thing I’d do now that he’s back in action is sign him on as my top spokesperson.

Who better to champion animal rights than someone who has experienced the dark side of animal cruelty? If Vick really is a changed man, this would be a great opportunity to move animal rights into the forefront of society.

The principal argument I’ve heard against Vick being allowed back into the NFL and against him getting a second chance was well reflected in last week’s reader comments like "No, he does not "deserve" a second chance in the NFL. No, he does not belong in a position that influences children. PERIOD."

A lot of the hatred for Vick seems to come from the old "athletes are role models" argument, which essentially says that a person with his profile shouldn’t be allowed to make mistakes.

Well, why not? Are athletes not people? Are people supposed to be infallible?

This morning, I read an article about how Pete Rose has potentially lost millions of dollars due to his betting-related ban from baseball. In that article, I read what I found to be one of the most compelling pro-Rose, pro-Vick, pro-anyone-who-hasn’t-committed-rape-or-murder arguments I’ve ever come across: "If his record were clean, ‘Charlie Hustle’ would be a no-brainer for people. He was the embodiment of the All-American way, a hard-working, get down and get dirty guy."

That quote, from CNBC.com’s "SportsBiz by Darren Rovell" was from a memorabilia company VP named Bobby Mintz who feels that Rose’s ban from baseball has hurt the value of his merchandise and autograph.

And he’s probably right.

But, why, I wonder, have people abandoned Rose for his mistake? Yes, what Rose did was completely wrong – you don’t bet on the sport you’re in, it’s that simple. I think Mintz summed up the error on the part of fans and collectors by saying he was the embodiment of the All-American way – until he was caught gambling on baseball.

But isn’t part of the "All-American" way being able to build your life from scratch or pick up the pieces, learn from your mistakes, and do it again?

How many people fail the first time around before launching a successful business? How many people learn from their mistakes and make something of their lives? Hey, even Marky Mark went to jail as a teenager and was caught not only throwing rocks at black kids, but once robbed a pharmacy while high on PCP and partially blinded a woman.

Does that mean he shouldn’t be able to work as an actor today? No, he clearly learned from his mistakes and has turned what he learned into one of the most successful movie careers of his time. In my eyes, Mark Wahlberg is a better example of the true American Dream to me than someone who has never faltered along the way.

Vick and Rose are the same; they just made their mistakes while owning a higher profile.

The saying goes "fool me once, shame on you – fool me twice, shame on me." The point is that almost everyone deserves a second chance. For the most part, I draw my line at rapists, murderers and child molesters. Just remember that you’re also only human when you draw your own.

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    Doug
    - February 10th, 2010 at 11:46:30

    Great article as always but wrong expression at the end. "Fool me once, shame on you - fool me twice, shame on me." ha always meant to me that you shouldn't let yourself be put in a position to get fooled again or its your own fault. This would indicate to me that we shouldn't give Vick a second chance as we would be putting him in a position to "fool us twice". I commented on your original article on Vick and stand by those statements that Vick did everything that someone should do when enlightened to their transgression; accept responsibility for it, serve your penalty and start again. The only thing Vick could have done better is come to the realization that what he was doing was horrible on his own and taking responsibility for it instead of being caught. As far as the role model argument people are making I find it weak. A kid's role models should always be the people around him and a guy like Vick just gives us all a chance to further that role model position that we may have with the kids around us by pointing out that how horrible the thing Vick did was and how important it is to take responsibility for the things we all do.

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    Noah Sidel
    - February 10th, 2010 at 11:46:28

    Doug, thanks for the comments - actually, I intentionally used "fool me once..." because the whole point of the article is that I think it's OK to make mistakes. Yes, we're perhaps setting up for Vick to fool us twice - but I think that's OK. The point is that yes, shame on us if he fools us twice, but I think we need to give him that chance. I don't mind being fooled twice if the motivation is correct. Now three times... well that's another story.

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    Mike Matlin
    - February 10th, 2010 at 11:46:26

    Odd, My letter drawing comparisons of "role-models" "Mike Vick" & "Pete Rose" wasn't printed yet this article seems to be a defense against what I wrote. Well at least if I'm not getting published I still see the effect of my thoughts. I don;t expect to get paid but credit where credit is due, and it would have been nice to see the catalyst behind this article rather than just the UBER scaling down of my letter to basically saying tongue in cheek. "baseball been veddy veddy goof to Pete Rose" And yes he (Rose) should be a hall of famer and personally he should have been allowed to continue his baseball career from what I remember it's not as though he was betting against himself. Besides if Gambling isn't a part of the American Way, what the heck is? Comparing rock musicians to athletes is totally whack though. I know a lot of kids who's folks wanted them to be athletes. I don't know one who wanted their kid to be a rockstar!

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    Noah Sidel
    - February 10th, 2010 at 11:46:24

    Hi Mike, We don't censor or edit comments to stories - chances are it was a technical error, sorry about that. Even I copy and paste my own notes in these comment sections into Word to save them just in case. I actually never saw your comments - would you be able to email them to me? Or perhaps re-post them to the original Vick story? Or even this one? Sorry about the mixup. Thanks, Noah

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